Choosing the Right School For Your Child: A Checklist for Parents

Joanna Tresa

Last Updated: September 5, 2023
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Choosing the right school is like picking the right soil for a fragile seedling. It’s about finding that magical place where your child’s unique qualities, talents, and interests can bloom into a magnificent garden of possibilities. And just as a gardener carefully tends to their plants, you’ll be nurturing your child’s growth and development by making this crucial decision.
Now, you might be wondering, “Why does it matter so much? Aren’t all schools more or less the same these days?” Ah, but therein lies the beauty of it. No two children are the same, and no two schools are identical either. Each school has its own distinct personality, culture, and approach to education. Some may emphasise creativity and exploration, while others focus on tradition and discipline. Your task, as a loving and committed parent, is to find that educational oasis where your child’s individuality is not only embraced but celebrated.

Imagine a school where your child rushes to the classroom each morning, eager to learn, where their eyes sparkle with curiosity, and where they make lifelong friends who share their passions. Picture a place where your child’s potential isn’t limited but ignited, where they are encouraged to dream big, and where they gain the skills and knowledge to chase those dreams.

Choosing the Right School For Your Child

In this friendly and informative guide, we’ll walk this path together, step by step, hand in hand. We’ll decode the process of choosing the right school for your child, breaking it down into simple, manageable pieces. We’ll explore the factors that matter most, from understanding your child’s unique needs to researching your options, and finally, to making that all-important decision.

But First, Let’s Understand Your Child

Before thinking about the features of any particular school, it’s important to look at your child’s needs, strengths and overall personality. Is your child’s personality outgoing or reserved? What hobbies/activities does your child like the most? Is maths my child’s forte? Will my child be happy in this new school? And the list probably goes on, till you feel like most answers to your question are favourable. But to keep things organised and well understood, here’s a checklist to help you know your child better:

  1. Learning Style:
  • How does your child prefer to learn? (e.g., hands-on, visual, auditory)
  • Does your child thrive in structured or flexible learning environments?
  • Is your child more independent or collaborative in their learning approach?
  1. Interests and Passions:
  • What are your child’s hobbies and interests?
  • Are there any specific subjects or activities that your child is particularly enthusiastic about?
  • What motivates your child to learn and explore new things?
  1. Strengths and Weaknesses:
  • What academic subjects or skills does your child excel in?
  • Are there areas where your child might need additional support or improvement?
  • What are your child’s unique talents and abilities?
  1. Social and Emotional Needs:
  • How does your child interact with peers and adults?
  • Does your child thrive in a social environment or prefer a quieter setting?
  • Are there any social or emotional challenges your child faces that should be considered?
  1. Personality Traits:
  • Is your child introverted or extroverted?
  • Does your child adapt well to change, or do they prefer routine and familiarity?
  • How does your child handle challenges and setbacks?
  1. Special Needs or Accommodations:
  • Does your child have any special needs, such as learning disabilities or sensory sensitivities?
  • Are there specific accommodations or support services your child may require?
  1. Goals and Aspirations:
  • Have you discussed your child’s long-term goals and aspirations with them?
  • What kind of career or educational path does your child envision for themselves in the future?
  1. Feedback from Teachers and Caregivers:
  • Have you spoken with your child’s current or previous teachers about their strengths, weaknesses, and learning style?
  • Are there any recommendations or insights provided by educators or caregivers?
  1. Consider Your Family Values:
  • What are the values and principles that matter most to your family?
  • How do these values align with your child’s educational needs and goals?
  1. Past Educational Experiences:
  • What has been your child’s experience in previous educational settings?
  • Were there any aspects of those experiences that your child particularly enjoyed or disliked?

Private School vs Public School?

The difference between private and public schools baffles many parents. Some parents choose public schools because of high school tuition costs. This can sometimes be the first consideration when picking the best school. 

Private schools come equipped with the required amenities. The pupils are given a chance to present themselves to the world on a worldwide stage. They are capable of understanding what society now needs and what they can provide for it.

But you might be shocked to learn that isn’t always the case if you believe that every private school has a hefty cost structure. Some private schools provide a top-notch education at a cost that a middle-class family may readily afford. So, if you are thinking about the right school, it’s important to weigh the pros and cons of a private school and a public school.

public school vs private school

School Curriculum 

Different schools offer curriculums that adhere to their vision towards education. So, choosing a school is not just about prime locations but what kind of curriculum you want your child to follow. 

For example, schools in India follow one of the following curriculums:

  • SSC: Secondary School Certificate
  • CBSE: Central Board of Secondary Education.
  • ICSE: Indian Certificate of Secondary Education.
  • IB: International Baccalaureate program

It’s important to question the school and enquire about the reason for choosing a specific curriculum. That way, you’ll better understand the values and principles that the school follows, thereby giving you more clarity towards making a decision.

Safety Of The School

There’s no doubt that every parent dreads an unsafe school. Given the rise of unsafe situations in schools being at the top of the headline, it’s normal to feel this way, because we know you want the best for your child. Perhaps a safety checklist could help you understand better about the school’s approach to improving safety:

  • Are students educated on safety awareness and personal safety measures?
  • Does the school conduct thorough reviews of safety incidents to identify areas for improvement?
  • Does the school provide mental health support services for students who may be experiencing emotional or psychological challenges?
  • If the school provides transportation, what safety measures are in place for students during transit?
  • Are drivers properly licensed and trained?
  • Are school buildings well-maintained to minimise safety hazards?
  • Are there regular safety inspections of facilities and equipment?
  • What measures does the school have in place to prevent bullying and address it when it occurs?
  • Are there policies in place to prevent individuals with a history of violence or misconduct from working with children?
  • How does the school communicate with parents in case of emergencies or safety-related issues?
  • Are staff and students regularly trained on emergency procedures?
  • Are there visible security measures in place, such as controlled entry points, security personnel, or surveillance cameras?
  • Does the school have a well-defined emergency response plan for various situations, including fires, natural disasters, and lockdowns?

school facilities


When you’re paying a certain fee to a school, you’d certainly want your child to make the best use of the school’s facilities and offerings. Whether it’s a holistic environment that has separate study spaces or the school encourages sports by providing a plethora of sports activities on campus, you’d like to ensure that these facilities are actually worthwhile for your child. You may check out the school’s amenities in addition to its welcoming learning atmosphere and qualified teachers. A student hostel or transportation services might be of great assistance if you live far from the institution. It’s beneficial to have a healthcare facility, sports amenities, gym, etc. within a school. You may contrast your selections to see which school provides the finest resources that your child can use. 

There are a bunch of other factors to consider, but these 4 aspects are crucial to be evaluated as a parent who wants only the best educational provision for their child. It’s always good to make a list you’d like to know before you start school hunting that includes 4-5 main highlights in a school. Don’t you worry, because with an organised approach, you’ll be better equipped with a clearer picture.

How Mentoria Can Help

So dear parents, are you prepared to discover the school that will nurture your child’s growth and set them on the path to success? If so, let’s journey together into the heart of the school selection process, where we’ll join hands in finding the perfect educational home for your beloved child. And the best part? Mentoria is here to help. With our mission to help the young and zealous dreamers of our country, we’ve made it our motto to go from clutter to clarity when it comes to choosing what’s right for their future. You can do so for your child by booking a session with one of Mentoria’s top-notch counsellors who are ever ready to help you make the best choices for your child or even so – your professional life.
Don’t wait, let’s talk! Mentoria’s one phone call away to help.